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[育儿] 儿子做公文的时间超长,当妈妈的好疲惫。跪求建议!

公文数学真的是很傻的东西吗?真的是傻做题吗?
我觉得如果对公文数学不了解的人,是没资格说的,如果没有熟悉公文数学的老师
指导下,自己做公文数学的题,也是没资格说的。
公文教材是死的,如果认为做题就是公文数学,完全可以去书店买一课一练等来做。还要公文干啥。
公文的理念是每个孩子都能学好数学,如果能够按照公文的方法去做,确实能达到
这一点。这就是他优秀的地方。
另外,个人觉得学公文数学,还是在外面的公文教室效果好。.

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原帖由 sisi妈妈 于 2007-9-24 12:54 发表
我个人反对公文学习,理由同上面很多爸爸妈妈的反对理由。但现在学校里名义上是自选,实际上人人参与,弄得不想参加的家长很被动。我曾参加过一个学期,但看到儿子对公文学习有厌倦倾向,就与老师商量,把发的回家作 ...
我也不喜欢学校导入的公文学习,那个公文学习个人觉得不好,个人觉得还是去外面开的公文教室学好,
效果完全不同。
另外公文并不仅仅是学习数学,而是良好的学习习惯,自学能力的培养。会让孩子有个更好的学习心态。
每个家长都希望孩子快乐成长,但是幼小衔接对每个孩子来说都是非常重要的,公文数学的学习可以让大班的
小朋友更好的适应小学的学习。.

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要骗钱也不开公文班骗钱呀,那个能骗到多少钱?当然是开外教英语班或者考级等赚钱快的
东西呀,居然说我是托。汗死,我原来在幼儿园教过公文,所以对它比较熟悉。

另外,公文的精神确实很让我佩服,让每个孩子都能学好数学,你明白这句话的
含义吗?也就是说,如果有人带了个很笨的孩子去学,公文老师也不能拒绝,日本
都有官办的给脑瘫儿童读的免费公文教室。.

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原帖由 一杯绿茶 于 2007-9-24 14:29 发表
“公文的理念是每个孩子都能学好数学”,谁说的?学了公文,就会数学好?胡说八道,这跟那些推销“不吃这个药就会死人”的恐吓人骗子有何两样?忽悠不明真相的家长掏钱是一种骗子行为。一个十足的公文托儿。
这个原因是因为按人的智力来说,每个人都能学好数学,但是一定要有好的学习方法,好的学习习惯,持之以恒,道理就这么简单。.

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原帖由 宝贝猪猪妈妈 于 2007-9-27 14:36 发表

是给脑瘫孩子康复用的,正常的孩子学它做什么!
脑瘫儿里有40%是先天弱智,但还有60%智力正常,甚至很高。
你们家的宝宝不可能都是天才吧,啥东西一学就会,而且做题像神一样
从来不做错。对自己不了解的东西,不要人云亦云。
不要象有些人认为日本人的东西都是垃圾。打个不恰当的比方,让你吃猪肉,并不是
让你爱上猪。
也不要象有些人,一听到要做大量题就是填鸭,达芬奇画蛋也画了很久了,磨刀不误砍材工。
再说了,我国是应试教育制度。如果一个孩子再有创意,个性,考试成绩不好,社会还是
认为他不灵光。.

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原帖由 fafayaya 于 2007-9-27 19:16 发表
你爱你的日本猪吧,别在这里忽悠不明真相的家长
有道理讲道理呀,谁忽悠谁呀,啥是真相,另外请不要
扯到个人喜好,我的喜好和你无关.

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原帖由 宝贝猪猪妈妈 于 2007-9-27 18:51 发表

一个愿打,一个愿挨.
一个连脑瘫和弱智的区别的人都分不清楚的人
说得话,你也信!I admire you.

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原帖由 fafayaya 于 2007-9-27 19:16 发表
你爱你的日本猪吧,别在这里忽悠不明真相的家长
你也爱你的猪吧,血口喷人算啥本事!!!!!!!!!
有本事一起讲道理呀
没素质!!!!!!

[ 本帖最后由 lufei 于 2007-9-27 21:52 编辑 ].

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原帖由 fafayaya 于 2007-9-27 22:13 发表
一口日本猪血喷死你个没素质的托儿!
等你喷,你喷呀,
我本来还以为你是人,喷不出猪血的
这真是个神奇的世界!!!!哈哈,哈哈.

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原帖由 fafayaya 于 2007-9-27 22:15 发表
你没脑瘫,但你弱智,弱智到做日本猪的托儿
又骂人了,没办法,弱智眼里皆弱智.

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原帖由 fafayaya 于 2007-9-27 22:15 发表
你没脑瘫,但你弱智,弱智到做日本猪的托儿
人蠢没关系,别出来丢人现眼,把自己发的回复编辑掉,
你丢不丢人,是猪你喷猪血正常的,我不会歧视你的.

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原帖由 fafayaya 于 2007-9-27 22:29 发表
小鬼子公文给你喝了多少狗血了,让你变成狂吠的疯狗?还不赶快滚出去!
不要象有些人认为日本人的东西都是垃圾。打个不恰当的比方,让你吃猪肉,并不是
让你爱上猪。
这句我前面就说过了,有智商的确人应该看得出我把日本人看成啥了吧
其实目前适合幼儿学的,并比公文好的数学课外班在大陆几乎没有,
不然你举个出来呀,台湾到是有,可惜没进入大陆,面对现实把你.
算了,不和你对骂了,没意思

[ 本帖最后由 lufei 于 2007-9-27 22:40 编辑 ].

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我只认得中,英文,以下是老外对公文的评价
以下来自 http://ask.metafilter.com/68013/Is-Kumon-Good
Is Kumon a good or a bad thing? Does it work?


I've been told about Kumon in response to questions about bumping up the English skills of a friends kid. The person telling me about it seemed positive, but I'm looking for a more balanced view. Has anyone here used Kumon for the better or the worse? Are there any negatives I should be aware of? Does it work? Is the fact that Kumon is a franchise something I should worry about?
posted by seanyboy to education (11 comments total) 4 users marked this as a favorite
My sister went to Kumon math because she was having trouble in math, and after a couple of years she was a year ahead of the rest of her class. It works. It's great. They really know what they're doing.
posted by Dasein at 11:23 AM on July 28



Emily Yoffe wrote about trying Kumon to overcome her dyscalculia. She explains in detail the assignments and methods.
posted by clearlydemon at 12:50 PM on July 28



My son was having trouble in math (he was 11 at the time). His buddy was doing the Kumon thing, so we gave it a shot. After six months, my son's math skills improved dramatically, and we can still see the difference today (2 years later). He only did if for the 6 months, and we found that to be plenty.
The only "negative" is that it requires some commitment on part of the student and parent--the student has to do question booklets EVERY day, and the parent needs to correct and monitor. Small price to pay, however, for the results.
posted by BozoBurgerBonanza at 3:32 PM on July 28



Yes it works. No your kids won't like it, but they'll like understanding math and grammar well enough to ace the tests they give at their regular school and they'll like being ahead of everyone else. Those "question booklets" that Bozo just mentioned are made by corporate, and literally guide a kid step by step through what it takes to do the task at hand -- revised each year to be just a little better -- so I wouldn't let the franchise thing bother you a bit.

They may or may not give you a little book that talks about how the system was developed. The short version is that one day little Takeshi Kumon came home with a bad math test. Mrs. Kumon was not amused, so she set this test in front of Toru Kumon, Takeshi's dad and a high school math teacher and said "What are you going to do about this??" When he said that it was only one bad test she retorted "Well how many bad tests will it take before you get serious about this?"

Toru sighed and opened Takeshi's math text and declared it crap. So he started working on stuff that did work. It was later that the "reading" component was developed (in Japanese, which has 3 "alphabets"!) So in many ways Zig Engelmann is his philosophical heir; neither one would stop until they worked out a way to make sure everyone understood, and that meant doing things one step at a time, reinforcing older material and how it related to new material, letting students work at their own pace, and not stopping or moving on until the skill in question was mastered.

Give it 6 months and even the most skeptical of relatives will be pleased with the results.
posted by ilsa at 3:44 PM on July 28



I used Kumon for math and yes, I liked it, because it worked! It uses the principle of drills (for math at least) you keep doing exercises until it becomes second nature.
posted by GleepGlop at 4:45 PM on July 28



I used Kumon maths when I was about nine or ten for a few months. I hated having to do the exercises every day but I went from scoring consistantly badly on maths tests in class to scoring above average.
It's definately worth a try - you should see some improvement in a month.
posted by Laura_J at 4:48 PM on July 28



Can't comment on Kumon English/grammar but the Kumon math works. I did mind-numbing multiplication and division practice booklets for about a half-year and during that time dramatically increased how fast I could perform those operations with large factors. Math in school became a bit more interesting (though I pretty much still hate it now) simply because I wasn't being bogged down by the arithmetic.

In terms of it being a franchise well I don't see the harm. The practice booklets you get are fairly standardized and correspond to your particular math level.
posted by junesix at 5:20 PM on July 28



My mother was a Kumon franchisee. Her prior experience to opening a Kumon center was as maths and psychology teacher at a high school. I helped her as an 'assistant' at her center, and my job was to perform marking and data entry.

Kumon as an organization is run on a series of formulas. Variation from the formulas is discouraged, as the system of rote learning and repetition is disheartening, but it really does work. As a result, it doesn't really matter which franchise you walk into, they are more or less the same.

I saw a lot of kids drop out of the system after a few months. Most of them expected really good results in the short term, and couldn't understand why Little Johnny who was having trouble with division and fractions was being charged $x/month for this mathematics system that was supposed to help him at school, but he was only working on addition! These attitudes were really hard to work with.

Kumon gives those who work at it, confidence in mathematical and english skills. The way the system works is that you are not allowed to progress to the next 'set' of problems until you can get this set of problems a) 98% correct and b) fast.

This combination means that you only really approach problems from the point of view of someone who gets things right all the time and has no problem finding the answer within moments.

Your original question was, "is Kumon good for english?" I'm not qualified to answer that question, as my english was so poor that I generally just read the answers out of the answer book - and mostly tried to let my other workmates mark those booklets.

If there is one piece of advice I would give your friend is to after she has made an assessment of Kumon and decided she wants to try it, is to treat it as a long term investment. The first few months will contain very little return, and then after that initial period is when results will really be seen. Commit to doing it for at least a year.
posted by Jerub at 9:29 PM on July 28



I did Kumon math as well--I don't know anything about the English portion, but I can comment on the method.. I basically went from failing math in 3rd, 4th, and 5th grade to, well, not failing it. I did badly on the initial placement test so the Kumon center started me (a fifth grader) at the '1 + 0 =" "2 + 0 = " level! My younger brother started higher and I never caught up with him.

Nevertheless, by the end of fifth grade, I was working at my grade level. I expect that if I had continued it I would have had a better grasp of the math I did later, as their methods worked pretty well for me.. particularly that it is paced to the student, and you basically do endless repetition until you get it, with no punishment (or even a "bad grade") if it takes you a little longer than anyone else.

About the franchise issue.. The basic method is going to be the same from franchise to franchise, but what might be different is the work environment, which for a process like Kumon can be pretty important. We had a great one in a part of town that was heavily Japanese--so even back then it was huge and there were always 20-30 students at the center and a half dozen graders at any point when it was open.. when we moved out of state and the franchise there was much, much (much!) smaller and seemed to me to be less organized and serious... it was harder for me to take it seriously, and eventually we gave it up.

So definitely some franchises work better than others for certain kids--it's worth checking out a couple. Watch for how the groups of children are doing their work when they're at the center--is it a studious environment? (quiet, etc?) Are there a lot of distractions/goofing off? The good center we were at had the parents waiting area outside, which definitely reduced distraction, etc.
posted by everybody polka at 10:37 PM on July 28



To build on what Jerub said, if little Johnny can't add, then he doesn't know enough math to get fractions, regardless of what is being taught in his school. So sure, it is frustrating to be told "Listen, it turns out that Johnny is having trouble with adding and subtracting, and that is a prerequisite to understanding multiplication and division. Since fractions are basically a specialized kind of division, that's why he doesn't get fractions. We have to build these skills from foundation up, and it takes time. I know he's studying fractions in school, and he's going to do badly at them until he understands the underlying math."

Although he says commit to a year, I think you will see enough measurable progress in 6 months to realize that it's working (at which point another 6 months won't seem like a big deal).
posted by ilsa at 4:44 PM on July 29



I somehow ended up doing Kumon in high school and as far as I'm concerned it's the only reason I did as well as I did on the math SAT. Prior to Kumon I had little or no facility with any kind of math, but I realize did internalize the important stuff thanks to the program. I had no problem with the repetition and worksheets. I actually found them sort of soothing, and I liked that I was able to work independently. I plan to enroll my own children in Kumon once they are old enough. As for your friend's kid's English skills, the number one thing to do is READ to him or her. Even if said kid is supposedly past the read-aloud stage, hearing real language from real, live books on a daily basis will do wonders. Start with 20 minutes a day and work up to an hour a day. It'll make a huge difference.
posted by jengod at 7:48 PM on September 15.

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希望大家都客观点,互相攻击其实很没意思的,希望每个小朋友都能学好数学
明天估计我该被封帐号了.

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最后说一点,我举那个日本开脑瘫儿童公文班时
大家都是嘲笑公文,没有一个人想到要教一个
脑瘫儿童学会数学,老师要花费多大的怒力.....
无语...............

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如果公文真的只适合脑瘫儿,就不会曾经在上海那么多幼儿园导入了,
你以为领导都脑瘫啊?
导入的做法我觉得有不好的地方,
如果幼儿园公文老师不负责任或对公文一知半解,就会出现本篇楼主那样疲惫的妈妈
学公文,和学任何东西一样,都需要个负责的老师.

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